It really makes me mad to hear stories of people “Helping”someone but they get mad because that person never compensated them in the future

It really makes me mad to hear stories of people “Helping”someone but they get mad because that person never compensated them in the future. “Helping” someone is not an investment tool nor a means of extorting people in the future! If you are truly helping somebody, it doesn’t matter what happens to that person in the future; if they get a new job or if they come into money, there should be no kickbacks of no kind. If you intend on getting compensated in anyway, that is not “Help”, that is an arrangement that you set with that person prior to giving your assistance. If you never set arrangement prior to “Helping” someone, don’t come back trying to extort someone in a “kind way” #IJS

From my dear friend Cody Novak who has the right spirit

From my dear friend Cody Novak who has the right spirit.
My door is always open, the coffee is always on and my couch is always warm and a place of peace and non-judgement. Any of my friends who need to chat are welcome anytime. It’s no good suffering in silence. I have bevy’s in the fridge, tea & coffee and hot chocolate in the cupboard and I will always be here. …You are never not welcome!!!
Blue Monday is a name given to a day in January (typically the third Monday of the month) reported to be the most depressing day of the year and January the worst month for suicides, it’s always good to talk but even better to listen…….xoxo
Could at least one friend, please copy and repost (not share)? I’m trying to demonstrate that someone is always listening. This is for my dear friends, I am listening. You are never alone. ❤️